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					<title>Dylan Thomas: populist</title>
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								<![CDATA[<p>Once upon a time – 1930s Britain – there were two strikingly different but equally popular poets. Oxford-educated W. H. Auden wrote a lot of intellectual poems in a style that’s easy to make sense of; Dylan Thomas, who left school at 16, produced more instinctive verse that often appears, at first glance, to be complete nonsense.</p>
<p>At the time, these two men were widely thought of as the era’s most exciting poets, alongside the modernist-in-chief, T. S. Eliot. Since then, the canon has been significantly kinder to Auden, whom the literary establishment finds more palatable than the famously bawdy Thomas.</p>
<p>Type ‘Auden’ into the search bar of the <em>London Review of Books</em>, and you’ll find 660 results; ‘Dylan Thomas’ by contrast yields just 182. The equivalent figures on the <em>Paris Review</em> website are 181 and 98. Yet a general internet search tells a very different story: there are 6.76 million Google hits for ‘Auden’; but a massive 121 million for ‘Dylan Thomas’.</p>
<p>These stats support a now recognised fact: the literary elites has neglected Dylan Thomas, despite overwhelming popular interest in his work. Why is that? Partly, and ironically, <em>because of</em> that popular interest.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/vaughan-williams-not-simply-a-nostalgic-nationalist/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/vaughan-williams-not-simply-a-nostalgic-nationalist/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/GettyImages-84879109.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/vaughan-williams-not-simply-a-nostalgic-nationalist/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/vaughan-williams-not-simply-a-nostalgic-nationalist/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Vaughan Williams: not simply a nostalgic nationalist</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/vaughan-williams-not-simply-a-nostalgic-nationalist/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Ben Cobley</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>At first, it was Auden’s reputation that suffered. On the eve of WWII, he abandoned the UK and sailed for America, accusations of cowardice ringing in his ears. Thomas, meanwhile, moved from Wales to London and fashioned himself as a poet doing essential war work. By the end of the decade, recordings of him reading his own work were being broadcast on the BBC, laying the groundwork for his ascent to cult status. By the 1950s, he was doing lengthy reading tours of America, where he died in 1953 aged 39.</p>
<p>“He died at the height of his fame,” <a href="https://www.jstor.org/stable/40548687">wrote Seamus Heaney</a> – one of the most commercially successful poets of the 21st century – in 1993. “Print culture and the electronic media were perfecting their alliance in the promotion of culture heroes,” meaning that even after his death, Thomas’s voice continued to spread, feeding his fame. Heaney continues:</p>
<blockquote><p>“The records of Dylan Thomas reading his own poems, records which were lined up on the shelves of undergraduate flats all over the world, were important cultural events. They opened a thrilling line between the centre and the edges of the English language collective. For all of us young provincials, from Belfast to Brisbane, the impact of Thomas’s performance meant that we had a gratifying sense of access to something that was acknowledged to be altogether modern, difficult <em>and</em> poetry.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Heaney, who grew up in a small village in Northern Ireland, is emphasising Thomas’s appeal to the ordinary people who lived beyond the metropolis, where “the English language collective” was centred.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/diversity-debate-left-white-working-classes-behind-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/diversity-debate-left-white-working-classes-behind-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/SatandSun.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/diversity-debate-left-white-working-classes-behind-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/diversity-debate-left-white-working-classes-behind-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Why has the diversity debate left white working-class boys behind?</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/diversity-debate-left-white-working-classes-behind-2/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Jenny McCartney</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Up-and-coming “young provincials” were perceived by the metropolitan elite as unfashionable, simple and prosaic. But Thomas forged ahead anyway, proving that “provincials” could succeed despite this snobbery.</p>
<p>But when his cult started to die down in the 1970s, most academics dismissed him as a populist trend. The literary establishment focused their energies not on unpicking his poetry, but on magnifying the persona of the bawdy bard from the backend of Wales who drank too much and spoke nonsense. Implicit was the assumption that any poet so beloved by the young, so stubbornly regional, so interested in sex and so often transmitted by the new-fangled media, couldn’t possibly be good.</p>
<p>This is ironic, because in the Seventies, English faculties around the world were enthusiastically cleaving the personalities of authors from their works. In 1967, Roland Barthes had published the influential <a href="https://writing.upenn.edu/~taransky/Barthes.pdf">essay</a> ‘The Death of the Author’, which encourages readers to disregard the biography, personality or intentions of an author when reading a text, and to instead judge that text based on its intrinsic merits. Perhaps Thomas’s texts were too difficult to judge – they’re known for mockingly evading all kinds of authority.</p>
<p>Besides, the literary authorities were altogether more focused on the death of <em>an</em> author: “after W. H. Auden’s death in 1973, Thomas was the main casualty of a critical urge to make the 1930s solely the ‘age of Auden’,” <a href="https://www.oxfordbibliographies.com/view/document/obo-9780199846719/obo-9780199846719-0057.xml">points out</a> Dylan’s most staunch defender, Swansea-based Professor John Goodby.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/GettyImages-541074915.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Ideologues miss Orwell&#039;s greatest lesson</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> James Bloodworth</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>At first it didn’t matter. Each December, the BBC still broadcast <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFSs2IdDmuU">a recording</a> of Thomas reading his micro-memoir, ‘A Child’s Christmas in Wales’; his rousing <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p01tx2w6">poem</a>, ‘And Death Shall Have No Dominion’ was still read at funerals up and down the UK.</p>
<p>But then the students of the academics who denigrated Thomas became our English teachers, and before long they were writing exam papers and curricula. By the turn of the millennium, the current state of affairs, <a href="https://www.ft.com/content/d6be442e-5913-11e4-a722-00144feab7de">described in the <em>FT</em></a>, had consolidated itself: “although the poet is widely celebrated on TV and radio, his poems themselves are frequently left off the academic curriculum.”</p>
<p>This matters. In the Internet age, it’s easy to forget how much control university faculties have over what corners of culture get noticed. With Google at our fingertips, it feels like we have access to every miniscule piece of information, and we have free reign to decide what’s important. But there’s a place where, during our formative years, we spend even more time: school. And the dictates of academia trickle down to decide what voices are included and excluded in our education.</p>
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<p>Maybe it’s not such a tragedy. Thomas is a dead white man, after all – the demographic best represented in our lessons, lectures and literature. But he’s also a case study in how an author can get overlooked not despite but because of qualities we ought to celebrate: mass appeal, resistance to authority and a marginal perspective.</p>
<p>As a master’s student, I wanted to write my dissertation about Dylan Thomas. When I outlined my proposal, my tutor made a face: “There’s not really anyone who’s interested in him in the department” – a department that is, by some measures, the best place to study English Literature in the UK. Stubbornly, I stuck to my topic.</p>
<p>In the course of my research, I discovered that Dylan Thomas has been <a href="https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/christmas-tale-first-audiobook-180961152/">credited with</a> kickstarting the audiobook industry. His early poems were lauded by T. S. Eliot (unlike Auden’s: Eliot told him to go away and try again). The young Sylvia Plath adored him – and was profoundly influenced by his verse. His words appear in multiple mediums, from blockbusters like <em><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_nprPycZow">Interstellar</a></em> (2014) to the lyrics of Bob Dylan.</p>
<p>Yet despite his huge cultural impact, universities so often treat Thomas as a minor poet.</p>
<p>Perhaps this is a reflection on academia’s determination to retain its influence, rather than a reflection on Thomas’s actual influence. Ignoring a poet adored by the masses contributes to a general attitude that the elite knows best while hoi polloi are misguided, tasteless, or just plain stupid.</p>
<p>Sound familiar? The gulf between Thomas’s reputation in pop culture and his reputation in academia is a microcosm of our times – times in which teams of well-educated experts continuously underestimate the masses.</p>
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					<title>The Millennial burden of perfectionism</title>
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								<![CDATA[<p>“Deleting this account cos it’s holding me back.”</p>
<p>About a year ago, a friend of mine posted on her four-year-old Instagram account for the last time. Then, a week later, she made a new one. The bio for this account reads: “All my bits”.</p>
<p>Curious, I asked her why she’d felt the need to start from scratch. “I guess the old account made me feel like I had to conform to this outdated/limited version of myself, like not just online but in actual life,” she replied, almost instantly.</p>
<p>Her words came back to me earlier this month, while reading <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/feb/02/zadie-smith-political-correctness-hay-cartagena">comments</a> Zadie Smith made at Hay Cartagena (the famous Welsh literary festival’s Colombian cousin):</p>
<blockquote><p>“We are being asked to be consistent as humans over great swathes of time. People are searching through social media. But everyone is changing all the time.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Social media has turned our identities <a href="https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/annehelenpetersen/millennials-burnout-generation-debt-work">into brands</a>; and brands <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/williamarruda/2016/12/13/why-consistency-is-the-key-to-successful-branding/#681e3d487bbd">must be</a> meticulously consistent in order to make people like and trust them. One of the best ways to discredit a politician, celebrity or academic is to use their Twitter history against them: remember the striking <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2019/jan/16/billboard-campaign-reminds-voters-of-mps-brexit-promises">anti-Brexit billboard campaign</a>? It used screenshots of tweets from key figures, like Jacob Rees-Mogg, to expose their hypocrisy. People really “are searching through social media” every day to try and hoist influential people by their own petard.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/GettyImages-541074915.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested Reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Ideologues miss Orwell&#039;s greatest lesson</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/02/idealogues-miss-orwells-greatest-lesson/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> James Bloodworth</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>It is, of course, important to hold high-profile people to account, but this climate in which our own words are so often used against us is enough to make anyone nervous – even when we don’t make a living from our ‘brands’.</p>
<p>And absolute consistency online is reinforced by the praise we receive for delivering content that’s in keeping with the impression other people have of us – an impression they’ve got from our previous posts. ‘On-brand’ has become a real-life compliment: if I ask a friend what she thinks of my new lipstick and she replies, ‘very on-brand’, this roughly translates as ‘I like it, it suits you, you should wear it again’.</p>
<p>But – as Smith recognised – perpetually conforming with past iterations of yourself can hold you back.</p>
<p>In literature and in life, Smith is obsessed with how necessarily plural, irreducible and paradoxical individuals can be. The introduction of her first essay collection – aptly titled <em>Changing my Mind</em> – announced that, “Ideological inconsistency is, for me, practically an article of faith.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/05/peterson-corbyn-rise-kidult/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/05/peterson-corbyn-rise-kidult/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Corbyn-rally-Matt-Cardy-Getty-Images.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/05/peterson-corbyn-rise-kidult/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/05/peterson-corbyn-rise-kidult/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Peterson, Corbyn and the rise of the kidult</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/05/peterson-corbyn-rise-kidult/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Jenny McCartney</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>She’s not the only one. Psychologists <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201203/are-you-having-identity-crisis">widely recognise</a> that the path to fulfilment requires constant re-evaluation and re-adjustment of one’s priorities, beliefs and image. And these processes are particularly important for the most voracious users of social media: the young.</p>
<p>Coming-of-age is meant to involve experimentation. Teenagers are meant to reject their former selves – which is hard when you’re constantly reminded of who you were by ‘on this day four years ago’ notifications. When you’re trying to work out what kind of person you want to be, you need time to passionately commit to a new image here, a radical movement there.</p>
<p>But, as Alexis Petridis <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2014/mar/20/youth-subcultures-where-have-they-gone">lamented</a> in the <em>Guardian</em> a few years ago, youth subcultures have vanished. “Mods, punks, soulboys, metallers, goths, hippies” are all endangered breeds. “There’s something oddly self-conscious and non-committal about” the way young people engage with cultural movements nowadays, he reflects.</p>
<p>My peers and I – born in the mid-90s – were the first people to come of age in the social media era. During our schooldays, we were taught that an online photo of us dressed inappropriately in 2010 could cost us a job in 2018. We were conscious that if we got drunk and silly selfies were taken, we might end up tagged in the photos on Facebook days later. We knew, when we entered the job market, that our potential employers would scroll through our Twitter accounts to check they’re consistent with what we’ve expressed in our cover letters. We’re haunted by the idea of being proved inconsistent in plain sight.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/the-bitter-truth-about-millennial-burnout/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/the-bitter-truth-about-millennial-burnout/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/GettyImages-492436406.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/the-bitter-truth-about-millennial-burnout/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested Reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/the-bitter-truth-about-millennial-burnout/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>The bitter truth about Millennial burnout</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/the-bitter-truth-about-millennial-burnout/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Peter Franklin</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>It’s no surprise, really. Human beings are inherently prone to what psychologists call <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/jan/25/oliver-burkeman-consistency-bias">‘consistency bias’</a> – which <em>Guardian </em>journalist Oliver Burkeman describes as, “the well-studied way we&#8217;ll retroactively adjust our attitudes to avoid admitting to being changeable”. We want to believe that we’re stable, in an unstable world. Social media appeals to – and exploits – this tendency: it enables us to go back and erase the bits of our identity that we think don’t fit, because they’re too ugly, embarrassing or incompatible to exist within the confines of our self-image.</p>
<p>Now, kids are so acutely averse to posting anything permanent that they <a href="https://www.recode.net/2017/10/14/16471688/us-teens-use-snapchat-snap-social-media-facebook-twitter-instagram">prefer fleeting snapchats</a> to lasting Facebook posts. Even as they document new hair-cuts, old friendships and vague observations, they know they don’t want that evidence to last; they’re aware that it’ll become cringe-y soon enough.</p>
<p>Don’t mistake this fear of commitment for the healthy, necessary rejection of a former self – the archetypal coming-of-age narrative. Forming an identity requires you to invest in your experiments. Teenagers need space to try an image on for size without the fear of being judged by others – or indeed their future selves. Constantly surveyed by social media, many young people don’t dare subscribe to anything, even – or perhaps especially – temporarily.</p>
<p>And this is having a profound effect.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/10/truth-gen-z/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/10/truth-gen-z/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/GettyImages-883746006.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/10/truth-gen-z/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested Reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/10/truth-gen-z/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>The truth about Gen Z</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/10/truth-gen-z/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Eliza Filby</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>The American Psychological Association (APA) recently <a href="https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/bul-bul0000138.pdf">found</a> that there has been a sharp rise in perfectionism among young adults since the dawn of the internet age. Their study involved over 40,000 university students – on both sides of the Atlantic – who completed the Multidimensional Perfectionism Scale. This survey asks individuals to indicate the extent to which they agree with statements like, ‘When I am working on something, I cannot relax until it is perfect’.</p>
<p>The study found that between 1989 and 2016, there was a 10% increase in ‘self-oriented perfectionism’–when people have unrealistically high expectations of themselves. In the same time period, there was a massive 32% increase in ‘socially prescribed perfectionism’ – when people believe they have to be perfect in order to live up to the expectations of others.</p>
<p>These increases are disturbing. As young people strive to be consistent with their own and others’ ideas of who they should be, their inevitable failure has a terrible effect on their mental health. Perfectionism is associated with, for example, clinical depression, anorexia nervosa and suicide ideation; in recent years, <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/society/2018/jul/31/young-people-mental-health-crisis-uk-us-suicide">multiple reports</a> have shown that these conditions are on the rise among teenagers and young adults.</p>
<p>According to the APA’s study, socially prescribed perfectionism – the kind that’s seen the biggest increase – &#8220;is the most debilitating&#8221;, &#8220;because the perceived expectations of others are experienced as excessive, uncontrollable, and unfair.&#8221; In other words, these expectations make people feel powerless, limited and held back.</p>
<p>Which is exactly how my friend described feeling while using her four-year-old Instagram account.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/whats-bugging-the-millennials/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/whats-bugging-the-millennials/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/GettyImages-667170324.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/whats-bugging-the-millennials/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/whats-bugging-the-millennials/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>What&#039;s bugging the Millennials?</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/01/whats-bugging-the-millennials/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Peter Franklin</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>The APA report mentions social media as a force that encourages people to present an idealised image of themselves; what it doesn’t mention is that social media demands not only a perfect image but a perfectly consistent personal brand – an altogether more overwhelming pressure.</p>
<p>We need to be cognisant of how social media promotes socially prescribed perfectionism. Young people have never felt more out-of-control: everything from the state of the job market to the housing crisis makes us feel as though we can’t move forward materially. Meanwhile, the online profiles we so carefully curate make us feel as though we can’t move forward mentally.</p>
<p>Our formative years are supposed to be a time for growth and development – a time to build a solid sense of self. If young people increasingly feel as though we can’t deviate, take risks or make mistakes – if we’re obsessed with editing and conforming with our past selves – we can’t progress.</p>
<p>Millennials are roundly mocked for being seemingly unable to grow up. But how can we, when we feel like the world’s demanding that we stay the same?</p>
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