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					<title>Cultural heroes, please stay out of politics</title>
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								<![CDATA[<p>There are two stars of the British cultural firmament that I admire beyond all others — with an intensity bordering on infatuation.</p>
<p>The first is <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bendor_Grosvenor" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Bendor Grosvenor</a>, who presents art history programmes on the BBC. He used to be included in the hit BBC1 series <em><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fake_or_Fortune%3F" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Fake or Fortune</a></em>, as number two to the art dealer Philip Mould, but was regrettably dumped from it in the more recent version. He has since been moved to a more recherché programme on BBC4 called <em><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Britain%27s_Lost_Masterpieces" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Britain’s Lost Masterpieces</a>, </em>correcting the misattribution of 17<sup>th&nbsp;</sup>and 18<sup>th&nbsp;</sup>century portraits languishing in public collections.</p>
<p>It’s lovely stuff. Bendor is inescapably patrician — he brings to mind the parson in a Jane Austen novel, missing only the britches — so the BBC has paired him with a lady called Emma Dabiri, a model turned visual sociology researcher at SOAS with a luscious Ulster accent and a vibrant wardrobe. Their genial non-chemistry only adds to the programme’s charms.</p>
<p>Bendor can walk past a portrait of an aristocrat, of the kind that lines every National Trust property in the land, and instead of seeing just another bloke with a big nose, he can identify the artist, the context, the whole long lost language of gesture and pose. To see his excitement as damaged paintings are restored to life, and his appreciation of every brushstroke, is an inspiration.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2020/01/the-coming-constitutional-battle-royal/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2020/01/the-coming-constitutional-battle-royal/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Mexit2.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2020/01/the-coming-constitutional-battle-royal/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">More from this author</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2020/01/the-coming-constitutional-battle-royal/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>The coming constitutional battle royal</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2020/01/the-coming-constitutional-battle-royal/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Freddie Sayers</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Another hero is <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonathan_Foyle" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Jonathan Foyle</a>, an expert on Tudor architecture and furniture. His is a less outlandishly period presence, but he more than compensates with deep knowledge and surprising superpowers including <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00ts2sg" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">climbing buildings</a>&nbsp;and stunning architectural drawing (to watch him recreate the lost <a href="https://www.jonathanfoyle.com/draughtsman/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Nonsuch Palace by hand</a>&nbsp;in the recent <em>Henry’s Lost Palaces&nbsp;</em>was a particular joy). Mr Foyle’s <a href="https://vimeo.com/213097913" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">contribution to the rediscovery of Henry VII’s marriage bed</a> has earned him an unassailable halo in Tudor enthusiast circles.</p>
<p>Between them, Grosvenor and Foyle offer a tiny bat’s squeak of hope in the vast cultural void. Here is connoisseurship of the highest order, a lifeline connection to the past, and a rejoinder to today’s deadening relativism with a powerful reminder that some things really are better than others, and there are still people around who can appreciate them. Bravo BBC!</p>
<p>And then… you follow them on Twitter.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/09/twitter-i-become-arse/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/09/twitter-i-become-arse/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/GettyImages-828896338-1.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/09/twitter-i-become-arse/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/09/twitter-i-become-arse/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>On Twitter, I too become an arse</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/09/twitter-i-become-arse/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Giles Fraser</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Why oh why, throughout the long and painful Brexit years, did these two art experts take it upon themselves to be so loud and confident at the most aggravating end of Remainer obsession? How can it be that two such fine minds, one of whom (Grosvenor) actually has a PhD in History and even some work experience in politics, be so subtle and enlightening in the realm of art and so pat and incurious in a political context?</p>
<p>If I were their brand advisor I would have delicately pointed out that, in the niche fanbase of English renaissance art, there might well be as many Brexiteers as Remainers, so there’s an obvious career disadvantage in getting so ‘stuck in’.</p>
<p>But more than that I would try to persuade them that some of the same <em>élan</em> that they respond to so powerfully in Henry VIII’s palaces, or a perfect van Dyck portrait, was involved in the Brexit movement: cherishing the particular over the generic, a need for a more stirring purpose than only economic pragmatism and a pushback against the dullness of globalised modernity. (And this comes from a Remain voter, but one who has since been trying to understand rather than demonise.)</p>
<p>One of the things I was most looking forward to about the end of the main phase of the Brexit argument was that these important minds could go back to their illuminating expert subjects —&nbsp;but no! Bendor Grosvenor, who has moved to Scotland, has started campaigning for the SNP to fight the Tories’ “hard Brexit” deal, including <a href="https://twitter.com/arthistorynews/status/1204464116355805192">campaign videos</a>&nbsp;and a <a href="https://www.thetimes.co.uk/edition/scotland/brexit-has-forced-people-to-choose-their-nationalism-jp553pv70">New Year’s Day column</a>&nbsp;in <em>The Times</em>.</p>
<p>The SNP! Does he think a post-independence Scotland will be prioritising investment in museums? Or that the inconvenience of Brexit would even compare to the inconvenience and damage of a hard border between Scotland and England?</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/11/would-scotland-ditch-the-monarchy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/11/would-scotland-ditch-the-monarchy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/GettyImages-842535992-scaled.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/11/would-scotland-ditch-the-monarchy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/11/would-scotland-ditch-the-monarchy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>Does Scotland resent the Royals?</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/11/would-scotland-ditch-the-monarchy/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Euan McColm</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>As for Mr Foyle, on the day after the killing of Quasem Soleimani, when the Iranian streets were being flooded with protestors (with <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-middle-east-51015795" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">disastrous effects and more than fifty dead</a>), he gave us this gem:</p>
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<p lang="en" dir="ltr">Just saying. <a href="https://t.co/Q6nnpLRAWn">pic.twitter.com/Q6nnpLRAWn</a></p>
<p>&mdash; Dr Jonathan Foyle  (@JonathanFoyle) <a href="https://twitter.com/JonathanFoyle/status/1213878805187706881?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">January 5, 2020</a></p></blockquote>
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<p>What wisdom does this comparison, between Donald Trump’s apparently sparsely populated inauguration and the funeral of a known killer and sponsor of political instability across the Middle East, give to the world? Are we to conclude that Soleimani had more supporters, and was therefore the better guy? The crowds are even bigger for the Ayatollah himself — does that mean he wins this competition? Jonathan, I could watch you talk about Tudor buildings for the rest of eternity but, please, make this stop.</p>
<p>I suspect that for lifelong fans of <em>Lewis</em>, the sudden elevation of actor Laurence Fox to anti-PC badboy since his appearance on last week’s <em>Question Time</em> is equally distressing. Gone is the fresh face of Lewis’s loyal assistant Hathaway, and the cosy parochialism of Oxford; a few elections later, the new Laurence Fox has become very cross and transformed into someone you might feel a little uneasy about if stuck in a tube carriage with late at night.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/12/how-i-was-cancelled-by-dr-who/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/12/how-i-was-cancelled-by-dr-who/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/GettyImages-109255543-scaled.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/12/how-i-was-cancelled-by-dr-who/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/12/how-i-was-cancelled-by-dr-who/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>How I was cancelled by Doctor Who</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/12/how-i-was-cancelled-by-dr-who/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Gareth Roberts</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>I share much of Fox’s frustration at the overreach of identity politics, but I also suspect that the angry man routine won’t convert anyone; it will only rouse the rabble who already agree with him, and put off more cautious listeners from the cause.</p>
<p>Fox’s <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000dck6/question-time-2019-16012020" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">now famous row</a> with Shami Chakrabarti on <em>Question Time</em> was about the Labour leadership — that it shouldn’t matter what gender the candidates are, it should be about their policies and capabilities.&nbsp;So far so good, but his argument would have been rather stronger if he had mentioned a single one of Keir Starmer’s policies or capabilities as his reason for supporting him. Instead, <a href="https://www.spiked-online.com/podcast-episode/wokeness-is-elitism-masquerading-as-compassion/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">as he told Brendan O’Neill the next day</a>, he supports Keir Starmer “only because I think he is the one that can go up against Boris — I think they’re both a bit dick swinging and, you know, that’s how it works.”</p>
<p>Lozza. If you’re going to offer yourself as more high-minded than the gender-obsessed wokerati, it’s probably best not to offer “dick swinging” as the main attribute you look for in a potential leader. I know what you’re trying to say, and I probably agree with it, but you’re not making things better here.</p>
<p>Cultural figures are people too, and, in the virtuous parlance of modern celebrity, why should they not ‘use their platform to promote causes they care about’? Well, perhaps because, whether you agree with them or not, they tend only to make things worse.</p>
<p>Watching highbrow brains drop all nuance and get down with political Twitter is particularly painful, but even actors have something precious to protect. Earlier in the same interview, Laurence Fox asked, “What’s the point of an actor?” and answered his own question: “Essentially the only job of an actor is to take a writer’s words and give them life. That’s your only job.” Couldn’t have said it better myself.</p>
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								<![CDATA[<p><i>Every summer, bookshops lay out stacks of blockbusters designed to be devoured in an afternoon and forgotten in a week. But at UnHerd we prefer books that leave a lasting impression. In this series of Summer Reads, our contributors recommend books that will engage and enrich you, not just distract you.</i></p>
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<p>Over the past few years, the cultural scene has been absorbed by big questions about race; sex, gender and sexuality; migration and refuge; identity; the people versus the elites. Literary fiction sales have gone down, but readers are increasingly engaging with non-fiction. In a world where so many charged issues are front and centre, it’s hard to look away.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/06/whats-the-point-of-political-fiction/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/06/whats-the-point-of-political-fiction/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/GettyImages-1142506886.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/06/whats-the-point-of-political-fiction/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/06/whats-the-point-of-political-fiction/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>What&#039;s the point of political fiction?</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/06/whats-the-point-of-political-fiction/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Sam Leith</a></p></div></a></div>
<p>Gender inequality preoccupies me most. And books on the pornification of culture, rape culture, male violence, sexual exploitation, harassment and similar subjects have been piling up since well before the #MeToo movement. But I’m not sure many of them are written to change people’s minds. Indeed, they’re often bought by people who already agree with the books’ premise, and hope to shore up their own opinion.</p>
<p>But not my summer reads. These <em>are </em>persuasive: they call upon the reader&#8217;s empathy and ability to step into another&#8217;s shoes. Each of the books walks you through women&#8217;s experiences.</p>
<p>Inequality, prejudice and marginalisation both cause and are produced by these experiences – and the allusive approach of these books is all the more devastating because it shows the subtle totality of patriarchy. Misogyny isn’t just about sensationally shocking events but about the invisible and choking atmospheric surroundings: expectations, assumptions, stereotypes and judgements.</p>
<p>The books I’ve chosen may ultimately provoke political anger – but first of all they will connect with readers’ observations, memories and experiences.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/a-survivors-guide-to-trauma/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/a-survivors-guide-to-trauma/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/GettyImages-888970216.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/a-survivors-guide-to-trauma/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">More from this author</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/a-survivors-guide-to-trauma/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>A survivor&#039;s guide to trauma</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2018/12/a-survivors-guide-to-trauma/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Bidisha</a></p></div></a></div>
<p><a href="https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/111/1113605/invisible-women/9781784741723.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Invisible Women, </em>by Caroline Criado-Perez</a>, reveals in precise detail how women have been ‘designed out’ of the world we live in: excluded from medical trials, tests of industrial goods, safety checks, urban planning and city design, infrastructure and countless other aspects of daily life.</p>
<p>As a result, we live in a world that is literally designed for men. Full of devastating examples, Criado-Perez’s reveals the sometimes fatal consequences of such an approach.</p>
<p>On more searingly personal territory, the brave and harrowing book, <a href="https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/the-apology-9781635574395/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The Apology </em>by Eve Ensler</a>, author of <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/46707/the-vagina-monologues-by-eve-ensler/9780399180095/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>The Vagina Monologues</em></a>, is a radical reckoning with her abusive father. In reality, Ensler’s father was a terrifying figure and a perpetrator of sexual violation, family violence and decades of malice.</p>
<p>Ensler and her family never received justice or emotional resolution – so here, she has written her own conclusion. She tries to get under the skin and inside the thoughts of her father, to achieve the closure she longed for as a child. This is an uncomfortable, counterintuitive read – but a necessary confrontation.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/03/the-inescapable-misogyny-of-the-modern-world/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/03/the-inescapable-misogyny-of-the-modern-world/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/GettyImages-89258310.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/03/the-inescapable-misogyny-of-the-modern-world/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/03/the-inescapable-misogyny-of-the-modern-world/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>The inescapable misogyny of the modern world</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/03/the-inescapable-misogyny-of-the-modern-world/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Tanya Gold</a></p></div></a></div>
<p><a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/05/no-visible-bruises-domestic-violence/588631/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>No Visible Bruises </em>by Rachel Louise Snyder</a>, another American writer, looks behind the headlines about women killed by a partner or former partner, and explores the patterns of control, abuse, domination and gaslighting that perpetrators use to target and set up victims.</p>
<p>Her world is a gritty one, in which she speaks to everyone from survivors to profilers to detectives, to find out what will enable early detection and prevention of these crimes.</p>
<p>Ultimately, her stance is hopeful: not all men are perpetrators, male violence is not inevitable, and there are tactics and approaches that work to change things for the better.</p>
<p>Even when women are not in a fatally abusive situation, they – we – experience the corrosive effects of subtle mistreatment throughout our lives. Lisa Taddeo’s book about women’s emotional and personal lives, <a href="https://www.bloomsbury.com/uk/three-women-9781526611635/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Three Women</em></a>, is a quietly disturbing probe into gender dynamics which are at once utterly warped and totally normalised. Through the interviews, we encounter intelligent women whose natural desires are thwarted or exploited by the men in their lives, in painfully recognisable ways.</p>
<div class="ref-ar"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/05/how-toxic-masculinity-is-tied-to-terrorism/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/05/how-toxic-masculinity-is-tied-to-terrorism/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><img decoding="async" src="https://stage.unherd.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/GettyImages-163131243.jpg?w=300" /></a><div class="content"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/05/how-toxic-masculinity-is-tied-to-terrorism/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span class="meta">Suggested reading</span></a><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/05/how-toxic-masculinity-is-tied-to-terrorism/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><h5>How toxic masculinity is tied to terrorism</h5></a><p class="author"><a href="https://stage.unherd.com/2019/05/how-toxic-masculinity-is-tied-to-terrorism/?edition=us&#038;ref=refinnar" class="text-decoration-none border-0"><span>By</span> Joan Smith</a></p></div></a></div>
<p><em><a href="https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/305/305706/don-t-touch-my-hair/9780241308349.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Don&#8217;t Touch My Hair</a> </em>by the broadcaster, academic and journalist Emma Dabiri, combines the depth of cultural history with a lively examination of modern day attitudes to black women’s self-presentation, expression and presence. It also reflects on the subtleties of prejudice, from Western beauty standards to the representation of black women in the media.</p>
<p>Finally, <a href="https://www.penguin.co.uk/authors/136931/michelle-obama.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><em>Becoming </em>by Michelle Obama</a>. It&#8217;s an account of her journey from ambitious, well-loved daughter to First Lady. It touches upon race, class and gender, covering the vilification (as well as the plaudits) she received in public life. But it’s also a story of family and of the many different kinds of love she has given and received. It works as a tribute to resilience under political fire, but also as a simple walk through a woman’s life.</p>
<p>This is what unites all the books I’ve chosen for my summer reading list: they work through empathy and illustration, with maddening and moving results.</p>
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